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You didn't choose what you inherited.
You can choose what comes next.
A weekly letter for the survivor-turned-parent who is done carrying patterns that were never hers to begin with.
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5 Questions to Interrupt What You Inherited
A short guided reflection to help you begin noticing the patterns that shaped you—and the direction you want to move next. Interrupting what we inherit doesn't start with perfection. It starts with awareness.
1 What pattern in my family did I swear I would never repeat — and where do I still see it showing up?
2 What emotion was never allowed in the home I grew up in — and how does that shape me now?
3 When I am most triggered, what does my body do before my mind catches up?
4 What would it look like to respond differently — just once — in the moment that usually breaks me?
5 What do I want the people who come after me to inherit from me?
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About the Newsletter
She is 38. Or 44. Or 51. She is driving her kid to school and replaying something her mother said — or didn't say. She swore she would parent differently. Some days she does. Some days she hears her mother's voice coming out of her own mouth, and something inside her goes quiet with fear.
“She is not broken. She is carrying something that was handed to her before she had words for it.”
If that is you — this letter is for you.
Each week I write one honest, grounded note about the patterns we inherit—and the small, brave ways we interrupt them. I am a registered nurse, a former forensic nurse, and a survivor of childhood trauma, child sexual abuse, and domestic violence. I write from both sides of that: the clinical and the personal. The science and the story.
This is not a newsletter filled with noise. It is not a list of tips. It is a steady space—one email a week—for the kind of reflection that actually moves something.
What you will receive
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Personal essays on generational trauma, nervous systems, and the imperfect work of healing. Written for the survivor who is also a parent.
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The science of trauma, epigenetics, and nervous system regulation — explained in plain language that actually lands.
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Scripts, reflection prompts, regulation tools, and micro-interruptions for real parenting moments — not theory.
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Early access to podcast episodes, the companion book, workshop openings, and anything new before it goes anywhere else.
If this work resonates — I would be honored to have you here.
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